What Are You Saying?

Scripture

We all fail in many areas, but especially with our words. Yet if we're able to bridle the words we say, we are powerful enough to control ourselves in every way, and that means our character is mature and fully developed. -James 3:2

Beloved, do you realize that you disclose who you are and where you are spiritually by your words? Your words hold power! Your life is a result of what you've been speaking. What are you speaking? Jacob (James) acknowledges that we are imperfect people and we fail, especially in our words. The sign that we have failed in our words is evident in the fruit produced in our lives. Think about it, Beloved. What have you been speaking about the situations that arise in your life? Perhaps you are responsible for completing a seemingly impossible task on your job. What are you saying about it? "Why do they expect me to do this? I can't get this done!" Or, maybe you desire to grow closer to the Lord. What are you saying? "I want to draw closer to God and I want to walk in His power, but I'm not like Apostle, Prophet, or Pastor (insert name)." Your words determine your destiny, Beloved. Now, think of the life-giving words that should be spoken over those situations. "This task may be difficult, but I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. I am also the righteousness of God, and if I seek Him, I will grow in His anointing." The verse above indicates that self-control in speech is a sign of spiritual maturity. 

Your words will also contribute to the shaping of someone else's reality. If you influence others, you should be speaking words of life over them. If you're a parent, leader, friend, spouse, or pastor, be mindful of the words you speak. Whether you are speaking to them directly or about them,  your negative words can be harmful. Satan is the accuser of the brethren, and he will certainly use negative words you've spoken against those you influence. Our words give him access to our lives and the lives of others. As he's doing the accusing before the Lord, he could say, "See, even their own parent says this about them." There is immense power in what we say. Paul said to the Colossians, "Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt..." (4:6), and he also told the Ephesians,  "Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what helps build up the one in need and brings grace to those who listen. (4:29)

Beloved, if we learn to control our speech, we are likely able to exercise self-control in other areas of our lives as well. This scripture serves as an encouragement as well as a warning to believers. This is especially true for those who are in authority over others. Your words carry weight, and controlling your speech is crucial to their spiritual growth. We will falter in this kingdom principle at times, but let's keep a short account in this area of life and quickly repent. Let's be encouraged to strive for self-control in our speech, as it demonstrates to others our spiritual health and maturity. 

Prayer

Father, please remind us to think before speaking and to use our words to build others up. Please help us guard against harsh and harmful speech. In Jesus' name. Amen